Save My Marriage Today Testimonials
Welcome to the Save My Marriage Today Testimonials
Area!
On these web pages, members of SaveMyMarriageToday.com
share with you their experiences of my course. I am sure that you will
enjoy reading how my course has helped so many people just like you. Will
you be next?
Success Story #1: Jeff
"My wife tells me all the time how happy
she is!"
"Amy, I am from
Indianapolis, IN. I purchased Save My Marriage Today about 10 months ago.
I applied a lot of things that you talked about in your book and our
marriage has changed drastically. Once I started focusing more on myself
to get through the pain a huge shift in the paradigm of our relationship
happened. I found the parts about relaxing to be very helpful and a good
way to clear my mind so that I could focus on the things that I needed to
take care of in my life professionally and not worry so much about our
marriage. I knew I could not change her mind and I had to let things
happen naturally but I also knew I could influence her with my behavior
and actions thanks to Save My Marriage Today. It is hard for me to
describe how I used the techniques in full detail but I did take a few
bits and pieces everyday and apply them and the results would start to
show slowly.
Some of the things were a bit confusing to my wife
and she had to get a sense of trust that I had been learning and would
continue to apply what I had learned, which is very key, but she did not
know I was doing research on my own. I would not like to go through the
experience again but it was a fun learning process and I learned much
more about myself than I ever thought I would. I had to grow and show my
spouse that I was capable of growing to take our marriage to new levels,
which is what she was looking for in the first place since she had become
unhappy in our marriage.
Now our marriage is better than ever and I am still
using some of the techniques I learned to keep it that way. 10 months
later my wife tells me all the time how happy she is and how wonderful her
life is with our family and that she is still amazed that I was able to
turn things around, and she does give me credit for doing it on my own.
Without Save My Marriage Today I would not have known where to begin
and we most certainly would have ended up in divorce." -- Jeff
Wann (Indianapolis, IN).
Success Story #2: Rhonda K.
"I needed clarity and hope and "Save My
Marriage Today" gave me that."
"My husband had an
affair that lasted several months (and that wasn?t his first). I came to
the Save My Marriage website by searching for help on the Internet. I was
looking for answers and really needed the anonymity that this web site
offered. My marriage was in danger because of my husband?s affair and I
couldn?t discuss it with family and friends. I was hurt and ashamed even
though I wasn't the cheater!
Other websites asked for huge fees for
individual counseling. That was something I could get in my own community.
I needed something that was more readily available, that could answer my
questions, and give me a place to start. That?s when I found ?Save My
Marriage Today.?
The biggest benefit I have gained from
?Save My Marriage Today? was perspective. There were so many lessons about
how to look at what was happening in my life from a different angle. I
needed clarity and hope and ?Save My Marriage Today? gave me that. They
used practical tips and things that I could really work on to be proactive
in salvaging my relationship with my husband.
Even though a lot of the stories and
lessons were focused on me, I felt empowered that I had some control back
in my life. I learned that there were things I could evaluate, change and
improve in terms of my outlook on life and relationships and my
understanding of my marriage. The true examples from real people gave me
insight that you can really survive an affair!
This web site is
different from many others in that the focus of the ?advice? and help
really reflects the name ---- ?Save My Marriage Today.? Other web sites
may not have that as a goal, but the salvation of my marriage was
definitely what I was looking for." -- Rhonda K. (Cottageville,
SC).
Success Story #3: Fred and
Maureen B.
"We will celebrate our 27th anniversary
this year!"
" Save My
Marriage was very instrumental in helping my husband and myself understand
each other by learning to communicate love words, to respect each others
space, and to speak up when annoyed and not harbor anger.
We were on the verge of divorce, thinking
there was no way to repair the damage. Save My Marriage was a God send and
we thank you so very much.
After years of misgivings we are happy that we
joined Save My Marriage and we worked it out and stayed together. We will
celebrate our 27th anniversary this year!"
-- Fred and Maureen B. (Putnam Valley, New
York)
Success Story #4: Brett P.
"Save My Marriage put it together for
me..."
"Just this past
September, I returned home from a weekend business seminar trip to find my
wife waiting for me by the door. She had her keys in her hand and said she
had packed up her belongings and was moving out. I was devastated to say
the least.
In my heart I did not want to lose my
wife and my family. I still had a great deal of love for her. During this
time I was also continually trying to call her, email and track her down,
pressuring her to tell me what was going on. Unwittingly I was making it
worse.
I found the Save My Marriage Today
website and though it might be a scam, but I took the risk and ordered the
on-line book and resource information. I printed it out and read it over,
highlighting that night to cover key areas and making lots of notes.
The next day I began applying the methods
and techniques and committed to staying the course. The thing is that I
have noticed is a huge change in myself and an understanding of who I am
and it wasn?t what ?she had done to me? but rather what I did and didn?t
do that had the biggest impact upon our outcome.
My wife and I are now going out on dates,
laughing, talking and enjoy being around each other again, and for me that
is huge.
Save My Marriage Today put it together
for me, it made sense and got me to slow down, live in the moment and
think about what is really important and how I can achieve it. The weekly
bonus emails are great too because they remind me to stay focused and
cover new topics I might not have thought about or realized.
It takes work and it?s the biggest
thing I?ve ever been through but with the right tools I know I can do
it" -- Brett P . (Longmount,
CO)
Success Story #5: Elsa K.
"The situations and solutions presented
are real, practical and simple to implement."
"I have been married for
six years and my marriage was in distress and I had reached a point where
I wasnt sure whether to keep trying or to give up. We argued each time we
opened our mouths and we no longer enjoyed each others company. I had
blamed everyone and everything from family and friends to our jobs and the
fact that we live in a foreign country. I was headed for possible divorce
and contemplating suicide.
After going through the lessons I began
to look at myself and I then began to assess myself, my actions and my
behavior towards my husband. I began to realize that it was the way in
which I acted and behaved towards him that was bringing about the biggest
problems. (Funny enough he always said this to me whenever we fought but I
was too busy shouting to listen).
I'm glad I came across your website. The
situations and solutions presented are real, practical and simple to
implement. Other websites painted a picture that marriage should be
absolutely perfect and have no problems but we all know that's impossible
to achieve. However your website has shown me that marriage needs work and
a change in certain attitudes and behaviours, and after that things are
not as complicated as we like to think.
Thanks Save My Marriage Today for a
wonderful website and for helping me get my marriage back on
track!" -- Elsa K. (Nelspruit,
South Africa)
Success Story #6: John and
Marianne
"It was a God send!"
"Dear Amy, thank you so much for the insightful and
knowledgeable mini-course, and for your book on "Save My Marriage Today".
My wife and I have been married for 19 years, and all of a sudden, things
were going wrong. It seemed like no matter what I said or did, it was
wrong. My wife moved out, and three months before our 20th anniversary, I
truly thought our marriage was over.
I didn't know what to do or where to turn, but one
day, while reading my e-mail, I got an e-mail about your web site, and
liked what I read. Then I downloaded your book, read it through, and
got my wife to read it as well. It was a God send! We then began taking
your course and doing the exercises together, and I am happy to report
that she is moving back in, and in January, we will be celebrating our
20th anniversary.
It opened our eyes to some of the problems we had
been having, and helped to open the lines of communication between us. I
highly recommend this course to anyone that thinks their is no hope left
for their marriage. We are going to continue to read your articles, and
take your courses, and of course, work on our marriage. Many thanks
again." -- John and Marianne E.
Success Story #7: Almaz
"When I started I was in a critical
situation but now I recovered!"
"Dear Amy, Thank you for your course. When I started
I was in a critical situation but now I recovered. I was not happy in my
marriage and I couldn?t understand my husband. I thought I always right
and I blamed him.
But now I learned a lot and I understand that only
being right is not useful in marriage life and I changed my life style my
attitude and my action. God bless you. ...Because of your teaching I am
starting to open the situation for communication and I understand the
better thing is to change myself instead of my spouse. ...May God bless
you and your ministry." -- Almaz (Ethiopia, East Africa)
Success Story #8: Marianne
"Many thanks for sharing with us such
powerful ideas!"
"Dear Amy, Many thanks for sharing with
us such powerful ideas. In my role as childbirth educator I come across
numerous young couples who, though most are having their first baby, do
not realize how important their relationship is, and how it affects their
pregnancy and birth outcome not to mention their future life as a married
couple.
What I like about your course is that it
gives the couple the feeling of control on their own choices in life,
especially the way they choose to think and interpret the partner's
behavior. Your positive methods for a better and fulfilling married life
are certainly compatible with the empowerment I try to give to couples
with regards childbirth and early parenting.
I have bought your books which will
certainly come useful in my classes. I have nothing more to say other than
thank you for helping me help others and keep up your good work!" --
Marianne T.
Success Story #9: Debbie
"There sure are a lot of "a-ha" moments
in the information!"
"It was when I saw the information on
"Marriage in Extreme crisis" that it really touched a cord with me as that
is exactly how I felt. As you say there is a lot of reading with the
information I received and there sure are a lot of a-ha moments in the
information. I am currently reading the "Journey" which is particularly
powerful to me as I associate with this person. I need to read this kind
of information as it makes me accountable for myself.
In reading
Saving My Marriage and Saving My Marriage 2 it became really clear to me
that something that my husband and I had were very different values. That
information on values has been so helpful to me and has cleared up many
misconceptions I had thinking that he and I were thinking along the same
lines.
I have printed out and given my husband both "saving my
marriage" and "marriage in crisis" to read and do the exercises with me
and although he said he would participate in them, he does the barest
minimum that he thinks will make me happy, but it is more than he's ever
done before.
I am learning more and more with each piece of
information I read and am growing stronger and more self reliant day by
day. I don't need to rely on anyone else for my happiness, I no longer
love my husband, but probably get on better with him these days.
I
honestly don't know if we will end up staying married. He would really
like to whereas I don't think I can ever trust him again, but, while I am
stuck in this situation I need to make sure I keep learning ways and means
of improving myself and learning how to deal with the situation by reading
the wonderful material in "Save My Marriage Today". -- Debbie
Cottrell (Sydney, Australia).
Success Story #10: Julie
"I needed your help immediately and I got
it!"
"I have had your help less than 12 hours. I can say
it has not only started me on the process to save my marriage, but also in
my other relationships (mother, daughter, friend, colleague). By taking
your advice, my husband has said the 1st nice thing to me in 3 months. You
only get one chance, I checked you out on a review and they rated you
highly. I needed help immediately and I got it. Thank you." --
Julie M.
Success Story #11: Kelly
"I feel like a new and much happier
person!"
"Thanks so much for your help. Your books really
helped me not only to realize about saving my marriage, but saving myself
as well. I feel like a new and much happier person regardless of what
happens in my marriage. Thanks again. -- Kelly S.
(Canada)
Success Story #12: Steven
"Each time I read it I learn more and
more!"
"Thank you for responding soo quick, I must say that
your book is an incredible source for anyone that's in a relationship,
i've probably read it 2 times in the past week. Each time I read it I
learn more and more. I like the chapter on the Love Bank, its a brilliant
concept." -- Steven B. (Virginia, USA)
Success Story #13: Mary-Ellen
"I am recommending your website to my
friends!"
"Thanks for your support,You were spot on with the
unrealistic expectations (comparing my feelings for my husband with a past
love -first love). I am now much more relaxed about my marriage - my
husband and I are working through the exercises in the book and are
finding it very valuable .I now am confident of a long lasting, successful
marriage (even if there are challenges along the way).Thanks again - am
recommending your website to my friends." -- Mary-Ellen J.
(Australia)
Success Story #14: Dr. Michael
Nebehay
"I know thousands will benefit from it
like I did!"
"Dear Amy, Deeply impressed by your commitment!
I got very valuable information that helps me for my own marriage as well
as for the marriage preparation courses I am giving for the couples who
want to marry in church. Many thanks! God bless you and your work,
Michael" -- Dr Michael Nebehay (Schlierbach,
Germany).
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Mini-Course Success Story #1:
Robert and Joanne H.
"We have gone from "I should divorce you"
to "Maybe I will keep you around for another 30 years.""
"My wife and I have been
married for 31 years this June. I always said that we lasted so long due
to my working out of town for the first 24 years. I had a motorcycle
accident that ended my career and forced me into retirement at the age of
50. The first year after that was fine as we got to know each other again.
After that we seemed to start getting on each other's nerves as we had not
had to have each other around so much.
Two years ago my wife was injured at work
when she blew out both knees moving patients in the Extended Care home she
worked in. Now both of us are at home full time and really getting on each
other's nerves. I saw an ad for Save My Marriage and put in a
subscription. I found the articles to be very helpful and insightful, and
there were times that I thought there was a spy in our home as the
articles were so personally related.
We have gone from "I should divorce
you" to "Maybe I will keep you around for another 30 years." Marriage is
hard work and if you have the right tools and are willing to work with
them, you can make it last forever. I think my wife and I are soul mates
and I think I would be completely lost without her. I hate to think where
I would be if I had not met her when I did" -- Robert and Joanne H. (Powell River, BC,
Canada)
Mini-Course Success Story #2:
Maureen M.
"After reading your articles we are now
in love again..."
"Since I began reading
the newsletters of Save my marriage today I have actually been able to
change and also change my fiance's attitude. We had poor communication
skills and we could quickly grow silent to one another and not be able to
solve conflicts.
Since I began reading your Save My
Marriage Today newsletters I am changed and I have also given him some
newsletters to go through. He has also improved. Thanks so much for your
advice and help! Our relationship has made some great breakthroughs and we
are soon getting married!
May God bless you for what you are doing.
Through your newsletters we realized we were actually too busy to make
time for one another. The only thing we saw was better ways to look for
money and make ourselves rich but it did not bring joy to us. After
reading your articles we are now in love again and we do as much as we can
to create quality time for one another.
-- Maureen M. (Kakamega,
Kenya)
Mini-Course Success Story #3:
Inemobong U.
"Save My Marriage Today newsletter is a
divine intervention..."
"Save My Marriage
Today newsletter is a divine intervention on my newly wedded marriage.
Before i came in contact with "Save My Marriage Today," I never saw
anything wrong with communicating with my ex-lovers, even when my wife was
hurting extremely, because I was not intending to have any physical
contact with them.
When I saw the site and seriously
followed the lessons, I printed the lectures, took them home, and invited
my wife to my studies and took some quality time to read the newsletter
together. We would not have known what to do without "Save My Marriage
Today." It was there my wife told me that she had already visited her
lawyer to consider divorce.
Now my marriage is experiencing a
tremendous transformation. I, on behalf of my wife am very grateful to
"Save My Marriage Today" for practically saving ours. What makes "Save My
Marriage Today"different from other sites is that it is very simple and
practicable to even a layman's understanding." -- Inemobong U.
(Akwa Ibom, Nigeria)
Mini-Course Success Story #4:
Doug M.
"...you are educators in life, love, and
happiness and that someone out there is human and understands the demands
of the common family in society today..."
"First, I would like to
thank everyone involved in this site because not only have you taught me
things to save my marriage but you have also made me look deep inside
myself as a person, father and husband...
I have realized things about myself that
I would have never thought to even look at before I read all of the
articles that has been provided to me through your site. Thanks to you my
wife and I are working with our marriage to make it last as we stated in
our vows.
We have been married since November 18th,
2000. We have two daughters ages 7 and 9 and we love to be together.
Before I subscribed to your website we barely ever had a family dinner
together, and now it is an everyday occurrence. I feel that I am forever
indebted to you all. I feel that without your knowledge and influence I
would be destined for divorce, so thank you.
What led me to your site was desperation
in wanting our marriage to succeed after exhausting our local resources in
marriage counseling, mediators and what have you. We couldn't find a
common ground and with you we felt like you answered our questions as to
figure out where it went wrong and how to work back to the love we had in
the beginning...
I found the biggest benefit from Save My
Marriage Today was that you are educators in life, love, and happiness and
that someone out there is human and understands the demands of the common
family in society today, including struggles with money, intimacy, and
your life not just your marriage. And your not in it for a paycheck. All
other websites that I have found don't really help. They are just
looking to get your credit card number.
I have spent countless dollars trying to
get help and was sadly disappointed in all until now with you.. Save My
Marriage Today has been a blessing to our family and we all thank you.
-- Doug M. (Davie, Florida)
Mini-Course Success Story #5:
Tanko D.K
"Glad to say that every single piece of
information you have given me has helped me save my marriage."
"First of all, I would
like to thank you so much for the knowledge you have so kindly shared with
me in your newsletters. I can't believe how much our marriage life has
changed since I started receiving your e-mails. Our marriage was deeply in
crisis before I came across your website. Me and my partner were not
talking to each other for months and what was in my mind was divorce. Glad
to say that every single piece of information you have given me has helped
me save my marriage.
The words "save my marriage today" drew
my attention when I came across your website. I found in your information
ways to understand my wife and the bad responses I've exhibited to her
actions. I reevaluated my life after reading your newsletters and turned
upside down other aspects of my life as well, and I'm happy with my wife.
It's a major breakthrough.
I'm glad to have someone like you
for your quest to have a peaceful home and a peaceful world. (This clearly
makes Save My Marriage Today different from other websites). In fact
through your information, I have recovered from where I was going wrong
and everything you have told me has worked, and worked well and I'm
strongly recommending your knowledge to couples all over the world. My
wife also thanks you and wishes that more men read your
newsletters." -- Tanko D.K.
Mini-Course Success Story #6:
Anali A.
"I Am Saving Every Lesson to Read Over
Again with My Husband!"
"Dearest Amy, Yes, I've learned a lot
from this mini course. Thank you so much. I am saving every lesson so i
can just read it all over again, probably with my husband. More power to
you and God bless." -- Anali A.
Mini-Course Success Story #7:
Fran C.
"Your six day course was an eye
opener!"
"Your six day course was an
eye-opener. I enjoyed how it was structured and presented from the
first day to the six day. It gave me insight on where to begin and
continue. It also pointed out how it would not be easy to do especially
when you have to look at yourself. Thank you for listening and being there
for me" -- Fran C. (Canada)
Mini-Course Success Story #8:
Irena C.
"I still find a lesson in each of your
emails!"
"Dearest Amy,I have a wonderful marriage
and despite I still find a lesson in each of your emails. I love getting
these friendly reminders... Sometimes we get so caught up in what we think
is "real" that we loose sight of the truth.Once again, thank you for all
your emails I look forward to each one." -- Irena
C.
Mini-Course Success Story #8:
Allan T.
"Your advice and encouragement is like
sunshine and good music to me!"
"You have been of great help to me and my
wife. I am sharing everything with my wife and I can slowly see the
changes. I know it will take time and I want to thank you for showing some
interest in my marriage. Your advice and encouragement is like sunshine
and good music to me . I really appreciate your time and effort in making
sure I receive information from you. My wife is finally sitting down and
reading the articles you sent and we have good discussions in the house in
the evenings. Thanks so much, you are a blessing!" -- Allan T.
Mini-Course Success Story #9:
Matt Sweeney.
"I actually like our relationship better
now than before!"
"Thank You for all your advice as I have
enjoyed reading your email's. My marriage relationship has turned 360
degrees as we have been getting along really well the past few weeks,
laughing, loving and sharing. At 50 years young and after 25 years
together I've learned and grown so much that I actually like our
relationship better now than before. Thanks again...Matt" --
Matt Sweeney.
Mini-Course Success Story #10:
Amos K.
"I am starting to find some meaning in my
life again!"
"I stumbled across your website and
confess it has been a great blessing to me for the last five days. After
reading through your well-written and straight-to-the-point articles, I
feel I am starting to find some meaning in my life again. Much of what you
say requires that I honestly examine myself, and that is exactly what I am
doing now. Be blessed." -- Amos K.
Mini-Course Success Story #11:
Sue Blair
"Reading your article gave me more
confidence!"
"I really loved the free 6
e-mail mini course. I found the information you gave was very informative,
I especially loved the one about affairs- Because i am always afraid of
this happening to me. The information was so interesting and you looked at
all angels and gave lots of advice about affairs and why they happen. Most
of my worries and fears are because i do not know much about things,
reading your article gave me more confidence because now i know the signs,
if and when they occur. Keep up the good work! -- Sue Blair.
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